We all stand before the court equally. The ability to get married is now an equal ability, and now the ability to be miserable in the marriage is an equal ability, and the ability to get divorced, and the ramifications and consequences are equal. However, this is relatively recent, and perhaps a sign of the times.
Every state is going to want that same equality. It’s just a matter of the old guard leaving politics, and the new guard coming into politics who are more open to change, being available to vote on this.